PROject LOVE

I did a little modeling for my friend's awesome company, Peace.Love.Life you should check out. If you buy one of these shirts (other styles available) you can send another free shirt to a friend. Share the love!

Jamba Makes the World a Better Place

...or at least my world.

The little Gingerbread man is my favorite Jamba card cuz he's totally adorable. I thought I still had my one from last year to reload so I could do the whole buy a $25 gift card and get the free 16oz thing...and then I'd be set for buying more Jamba (cuz I go there all the time anyway...). I kept saying that I'd buy a card later but I wanted to find my old one to reload cuz I didn't like this year's design....but I couldn't find him. I went through 3 purses before I decided he was lost and the next time they asked I would just get one of the new designs just to help them out. (but only if it was someone I liked in case they were on teams competing for who could sell the most like we were last year)

Today I went in and got my usual substitute for my usual (Matcha Green Tea Blast, no fro yo, sub blueberries and energy boost cuz I'm freekin' tired at work) and Ben, who is usually there in the mornings, took my order. I had all intensions of buying the card if they asked and it didn't seem like he was going to ask (maybe cuz I whined about my gingerbread man card enough) so I was getting out my debit card to pay and he's like, do you wanna get a card this time? "Sure, why not?!" I kinda threw my arms up and grabbed one of the dumb looking apple ornament ones...but before I could hand that one to him he pulled another one out and said, "this is the one you liked, right? I found one for you." THE GINGERBREAD MANNNNN! TOO AWESOME! I'm pretty stoked, if you can't tell. He's so cute, isn't he?? I'll make it a point to not loose this one.

If you're insecure, don't take it out on me...

This is from eHarmony's advice article entitled "8 Bad Reasons To Break Up" and I couldn't have said it better myself.

"3) Your Partner Finds Other People Attractive

Just because you’ve captured another’s heart, it doesn’t mean that you’ve removed the eyes from that person’s head, too. Even when fully loved up, it’s crazy to think that your partner has gone blind to the attractiveness of others. Physically attractive people are all around us, on TV, in film and even in the local supermarket, so it’s naïve to think that they’ll go unnoticed. There’s even a chance that your loved one will feel that pull of chemistry with someone else, too, so you’d better learn how to manage it. In a good committed relationship, the partners are not cut off to external influences, but they’re mature enough to know that acting on them is a recipe for disaster."

Well said, bravo...

Jealousy is retarded. It in no way means you love or care about someone...it just means you're insecure. If you think your significant other is going to go cheating on you with some random hottie, or worse, one of their friends, you must be horribly insecure in your relationship. And if they do cheat or run off with someone else, they're the asshole, and I'm sure your jealousy didn't have anything to do with it.

2 seconds of "wow, aren't they attractive" never hurt anyone.

My first boyfriend was grossly jealous poseesive. I couldn't even say hi to one of my guy friends when I was with him. That SUCKED. The 2nd guy that was kinda almost my boyfriend was an even bigger flirt than me. Amazing. The last boyfriend...totally jealous. We had a bunch of fights about it. It was irritating...but I put up with it. Why did I do that??! (rhetorical question; I just realized what a tard I was!) I really mustn't do that again. If someone can't be confident in the fact that I chose to be with them, then they're not worth it. I'll probably just end up in a really frustrating situation for all parties involved...